Why People Have Affairs

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Why Do People Have Affairs?

People choose to have affairs. They are not some behavior or event that it thrust upon them. They choose and oftentimes this is a bad choice.

People choose to have affairs because they no longer feel good about themselves in the presence of their spouse.

Are you having an affair right now? Then stop, and think. How did you feel around your spouse or partner before you made that choice? What made you feel like that? How did you allow yourself to get so low, so feel so bad, to get so superficially cocky about your own self importance that you made such a bad personal choice?

We make choices on how we feel about ourselves. So, if you are making bad choices start working on how you feel about yourself.

In the above video this is called working on your character.

Character is how we act when the going gets tough. Character is the side of ourselves that we present when our jobs are in jeopardy, when we are being put upon by others, when our spouse runs off with the milkman. That is when our true character shows.

To build a strong character we need some adversity in our life. That is when we get the chance to mold ourselves into who we want to be, so that we can project the image we want to project to the world. Remember true character shine through when life is tough.

So, check your attitude. Do you think the world owes you? Or do you think you owe it to yourself to work on your character?

If the latter then a good attitude will put you in a good head space and that, in turn will help you to make better choices in your life.

Remember, if there is an affair in your life, find your true inner character and let that be your guiding light.

So, now you have my thoughts. Watch the video and leave your comments below.

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