Are You in the Market for Girlfriend?
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Have you ever had a girlfriend before? If you have been in the dating game previously then, ask yourself are you looking for a different kind of girl this time round.
Maybe you feel that in the past you have been attracted to one sort of woman and you’re either looking to broaden your experience or get a different outcome (sometimes dating the wrong type of person will always get you the wrong sort or result). So, if you want a different outcome in your next relationship, do something different.
However, if this is to be your first girlfriend ever – congratulations you’ve come to the right place for some advice. That is what you are here for, right?
- stop looking
That’s right. If you want a girlfriend stop looking for her. Chances are she will find you or you will find each other when you least expect it. You see, when you are totally engrossed in whatever it is that you love doing – you are being yourself – nice and natural. you are also not sending out desperation signals. There is nothing more off putting than a guy looking and acting desperate. So chill. Continue doing what you do and let your peripheral vision and second sense be your radar.
- work on yourself
There is no better way to make yourself attractive to a member of the opposite sex than to be as well rounded a person as you can be. Spend some time and some money on yourself – not just on your appearance and your wardrobe – but also on you, the person. A bit of personal development goes a long way and at times like this it will do wonders for your self esteem. Power is an aphrodisiac – remember that. Some women will be turned on by what you do as well as how interesting and interested you are in them.
- lighten up
Yes, you want a girl. I get that. No, you won’t get one if you’re too serious. There is a time and a place for seriousness and it generally isn’t during the pres. So, don’t take yourself too seriously and lighten up about your ‘predicament’.
Go where the girls are. Sure you will befriend more than you will date but what is wrong with that. If you want to know how to attract a girl who better than other girls to teach you all you need to know. One of those female friends may be your girlfriend in the making – but you won’t know that for a long time yet. it takes time so relax and enjoy the ride.
So, now you have two opinions – mine and what’s in the video – leave your comment below.
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